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Sunday, August 16, 2009 8:21:00 PM
"you know, i was thinking, we tend to see the bad side of others, so that we could avoid doing the same thing they did, saying, "i do not want to be like her" or "i am not like her" i mean we thought we could avoid it and learn something from it, but the fact is that we'll just do the same thing they did even more! or even worse! because we're so busybody about others' imperfections (admit it we are,at times, very kepo about others) that we do not realize our own bad habits. just because others' actions are just so obviously mean and cruel, we think we're much better people, as in, we're-not-like-em kinda thinking. not like, they're-just-people-who-have-bad-habits-like-we-do kinda thinking. get what i mean? i realize that this is what create dislikes, judgemental, hypocrite people. of course not all practice this mistake. some are wise enough to do otherwise. so, since i am one of those busybodies, or i actually prefer to call it curious and interest on people's different kind of characters and personalities, why not we learn to observe the good side of others' instead of focusing on their imperfections. be influence by their inspiring act, and present the best of us to others' so that they can do the same. with this, there'll be more optimistic, respectable, and confident people =)). and it all start with the lady in the mirror" written by dhiya |
Yours truly, |
